Rihanna to Testify; Chris to “Smash”.
Media Still Tone-Deaf
June 21, 2009
by Judy Silver
|Tonight, my thoughts are with Rihanna, who is scheduled to testify tomorrow morning at a preliminary hearing in Los Angeles against Chris Brown, charged with felony counts of assaulting her. It must take immense bravery for Rihanna to testify in the face of not only the hurdles that any abused woman faces, but also intense scrutiny from tone-deaf media. For example in the CNN Showbiz Tonight clip below, host AJ Hammer says:
I’d have to believe that she’d rather have this whole thing just kinda go away so she can get on with her life.
Really? Are you saying, AJ, that you believe she should just “get over it?” Pat LaLama then says:
They [the court] only care about the seriousness of the charge and whether he’s responsible, not whether she wants to blubber on the stand and talk about how she still loves him.
How sensitive. It got worse. Hammer read the LAPD statement:
[Rihanna] turned to face Brown and he punched her in the left eye with his right hand. He then drove away in the vehicle and continued to punch her in the face with his right hand while steering the vehicle with his left hand. The assault caused [Rihanna's] mouth to fill with blood and blood to splatter all over her clothing and the interior of the vehicle. Brown looked at [Rihanna] and stated, “I’m going to beat the s*** out of you when we get home! You wait and see!”
The reaction of Ben Widdicombe, Celebrity Editor of Stylist.com:
That is such a hard statement to hear read, isn’t it, when you imagine what happened to Rihanna that night.
Hard statement to hear? Poor Ben Widdecombe, to have to hear it read. How about what a horrific night it was for Rihanna to endure??? Widdecombe went on:
But it seems to me that both sides are playing hardball on this. Rihanna’s own attorney has made it very clear for quite some time now that she will cooperate with prosecutors… Both sides seem to be wanting to gear up for a fight here.
Excuse me? Is Widdecombe equating Rihanna’s cooperating with prosecutors to playing hardball and gearing up for a fight? That’s outrageous. Would anyone call it hardball if a criminal had tried to strangle a man and that man was cooperating with prosecutors? No. Widdecombe is not being quite as extreme as the radio personalities that have called Rihanna a snitch, but he’s following in that same track of casting the victim in a bad light merely for seeking justice.
Chris Brown is charged with “assault with force likely to produce great bodily injury.” That’s a serious, felony crime. America should be rallying around Rhianna as she does the courageous thing and seeks justice both for her sake and for the sakes of all of the teens who view these music stars as role models.
Meanwhile, what’s Chris Brown up to? In the CNN tape, Hammer says, ”Given how hard Chris Brown has been working to revamp his image, I can’t imagine that he would ever want that [LAPD statement] repeated…” So what’s he been doing that should repair his image? One bit of news is that an early version of his new song “Smash” has hit the internet. Really Chris? You’re going to rehabilitate your image with a song entitled, “Smash?” Supposedly, the song is about a fan who desires him. An excerpt of the lyrics and the YouTube follow.
I’m a kind of guy don’t follow rules.
So come on baby girl, let’s break a few.
Well, let me say this:
Are you sure you want to play with fire?
I’m guaranteed to take it higher.
If you say you don’t then you’re a liar.
You don’t want my number baby; you don’t want my mind.
I know what you want; I know what you want.
You don’t want no picture baby, or no autograph.
I know what you want; I know what you want, you want to
Hit it, hit it, hit it, smash,
Hit it, hit it, hit it, smash,
Hit it, hit it, hit it, smash,
Hit it, hit it, hit it, smash.
I know her game; she all the same.
I don’t really really want to know her name.
She went down town like a stock exchange
All her friends kept c**k blocking me.
Keri Hilson, a songwriter that Hollywood Gossip reported is working with Chris, says
It is unfortunate what they are going through, but I feel like if you’ve ever had a fan base, you’re really only one song away from appeasing that base.
Unfortunate? No. The alleged crimes were no mere accidental misfortune. And if the fan base is appeased by one hit, that’s a sad statement about the value of women’s safety in America.

i think rihanna is doing the right thing and am so proud of her coz what that boy did wasn,t right.i also think that it has taken rihanna alot of energy & thinking to decide to do this and she needs our support (her fans).we luv u and will always be on ur side (she is a strong gal she gat 2 do this .
Good for Rihanna. It is so important for our teenage girls to see her stick with this.
Rihanna – we got your back sister!
Good for Rihanna, I am so proud of her
Chris Brown pleads guilty
Is the 2009 version of sending flowers?
“At the end of his statement, the detective said Brown sent a text message nine days later, apologizing.”
I like how the judge (a woman) handled this case. First, the two-way “stay-away” order prevents Chris and Rihanna from orchestrating a reconciliation, as they tried to do at the basketball game a while back. Restoring that relationship to “celebrity lovebird” status would distort the focus from domestic violence to their “love story” and advance the misconceptions already held by young girls (that she was equally to blame because she hit him first and that domestic violence is easily resolved and therefore “no big deal”).
This stay away order effectively eliminates the couple’s PR people– who would obviously like to spin this away from all the most disturbing aspects of the issue–from the equation. imo and in the words of the immortal Martha Stewart THAT IS A GOOD THING.
I’m also really REALLY glad Chris Brown pleaded guilty, so the most important aspects of domestic violence weren’t buried by 24/7 cable squabbling over a “she hit me first” defense, which some misogynists would have undoubtedly mutated into an argument of “well, if they want equality then they have to realize that if they’re going to hit a guy, then they’re going to get hit BY a guy.” I could just see the usual sexist suspects lining up to make that case, so thank God that’s not going to happen.
This case was a win for for women. Domestic violence was treated like a crime, and for the next five years the celebrity-worshipping public will see a high profile celebrity cleaning graffitti off walls and picking up trash off the road BECAUSE HE BEAT UP A WOMAN.
Shout-out to the judge.
Probation? Community service? Hey, can a white guy get that kind of deal? Beat the crap out of a sistah and walk, I mean? Or are special deals like that reserved for the bruthas?
Sheeeiit, sistahs, y’all ought to date white boys. They whack you and you get to send them to prison for a hate crime! But then again, maybe you like the Chris Brown-style “roughin’ up” y’all get.
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