Women Who Help Women: Mary Kay Ash
November 27, 2008
by Contributor
“If I have convinced one more woman today of her greatness and helped her believe in herself, then it has been a great day!!”
It is with this spirit that Mary Kay Ash, the founder of Mary Kay Inc., drove her company to be the preeminent skin care and cosmetic company in the world. I came into the orbit of this great woman 25 years ago as a hippie musician who never wore a lick of makeup. I had just had my first child and was looking for a business opportunity where I could make terrific money, be independent, and stay at home with my son. Never in a million years did I ever believe it would be selling—and selling lipstick at that!
But Mary Kay had imbued this business opportunity for women with everything I was looking for and more. Forty-five years ago when the company was founded, she felt that women were the greatest untapped resource in the United States. When Mary Kay was 50, she retired from Stanley Products. She left because she was sick and tired of training the men who all got promoted ahead of her.
One day she decided to make a list of everything a “dream company for women” would have. That list included great pay (not just great pay “for a woman”), flexible hours, lots of recognition for work well done, a career path that everyone could climb and reach the top, a job that would rebuild the damaged self-esteem that women tend to have, a company where one person’s success was everyone’s success, where we could all climb together, where helping each other was critical to the success of the enterprise. She wanted to sell a product where top dollar would be spent developing the very best and a product that would continue to sell regardless of the economy. But more than anything else, she wanted to have a company where the greatness within each woman was tapped and developed.
From that beginning she built Mary Kay Inc., a company that has won nearly every accolade a business can win from being the #1 skin care and cosmetics company in the U.S. for the past 25 years to being named by Fortune Magazine as one of the 10 best companies for women to work for. Our company has more women making over $100,000 a year than any other company in the world. Mary Kay believed in sharing the wealth and as such has also created more female millionaires than any company in the world.
But the key to the success of Mary Kay’s dream has been that every woman can achieve her greatness and that we will help each other do it. We are all taught to praise people to success. What a novel concept! All of the men laughed at her and said it couldn’t be done, but she had the last laugh. She always said that women were like bees—aerodynamically a bee shouldn’t be able to fly because its wings were too small for its body. But the bee goes ahead and flies anyways. And so it is with women—we go ahead and do all of the things that we are told we can’t—and we’re great at them!!!!
Long before the woman’s movement, there was Mary Kay blazing a path and bringing women along with her. Now that’s worth putting lipstick on every day!
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I love Mary Kay, the whole concept. The products are wonderful, but that’s not what it’s about for me. It’s about the women, the single mothers, the college students, all of them, who are empowered to work for themselves, to have a flexible schedule, to take control of their lives, to sell their product in a way that lifts up other women. They promote nurturing yourself, feeling good and passing that on.
LOL, it’s hard to describe what it’s all about, but I will spend my last 50 bucks to support someone selling MaryKay. I’ve seen women grow and blossom under the success they create for themselves and I just love it.
What an inspirational woman. Trying to find a way to construct jobs around women’s busy lives.
Thanks for sharing this Cynthia!
[...] To start to knit together the fabric of colorful tales for our next generations. Be it Mary Kay Ash, founder of Mary Kay Cosmetics or Zoe Cruz, former President of Morgan Stanley – there are role models out there today [...]
I agree, somewhat reservedly, that she deserves our accolades. However, I’m still kind of put off by the whiff of pyramid scheme and cult that surrounds her program.
I only use skin care products, hypoallergenic, not tested on animals Presently using Alba. Does Mary Kay have a good skin care line?
My mother sold AVON in the ’50s, adjunct to her bread and butter job that supported seven of us. She didn’t go door to door. She had several hundred female co-workers. Radical feminist that I am, I never put down women who use make-up. That Avon bought me a white angora sweater for my 16th birthday.
no pyramid scheme, no cult, no animal testing. You must have gotten a wrong impression somewhere along the way. I hate to say it, but many people tried to marginalize Mary Kay for her accomplishments as well. It’s so easy to do that to a woman in our society—-look at Sarah Palin. TOTALLY marginalized for her accomplishments as governor of Alaska.
A moving story. I rarely wear make-up, but will buy from a Mary Kay representative where I live from now on.
I have been inclined to look down on women [such as Mary Kay sales people] but the Mary Kay story made me realize my narrow [just plain dumb] thinking re: support of women. Thank you.
Single mothers face one of the most challenges job in the world. Believe it or not bringing up a child without the assistance of your male partner is no easy job. This is the situation that shows who is a true caring mother and the one who simply neglects her child just to pursue her own interests neglecting the child. Though it is not an easy job, mothers should for the time-being, put a pause to their materialistic hunger and take the child upbringing as the primary focus in life. Those women who have done this have brought up the best of men in the world and led a happy and fulfilling life. On the other hand there have been women who neglected their children in their tender years just to repent later in their lives.
[...] or as a gift. You can also give (or get) a TNA shirt, bib, or doggie-T, or you can purchase Mary Kay products for both women and men from this link at Mary Kay, and if you put TNA in the comment [...]
[...] or as a gift. You can also give (or get) a TNA shirt, bib, or doggie-T, or you can purchase Mary Kay products for both women and men from this link at Mary Kay, and if you put TNA in the comment [...]
[...] or as a gift. You can also give (or get) a TNA shirt, bib, or doggie-T, or you can purchase Mary Kay products for both women and men from this link at Mary Kay, and if you put TNA in the comment [...]
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